I believe everyone wants to be successful in one way or another. If you want to be successful at being a great parent, a succesful leader or just living a happy life – that is the essence of being successful to me – whatever it is, you can do it!
If you want to be and feel successful but are not really there today, I would start by writing down how your life would be when you are living a successful life? And maybe you find out that you are closer than you think already. We do have a lot of things in our life that we may take for granted, so it is also a good way of checking in with yourself, making a current situation analysis.
When you have your picture of where you want to go, you can start making small everyday changes, focusing on getting to your most successful life. According to you, and that is what matters. By being aware of what you want, it will be easier to take the right everyday choices, that will get you to where you want to be in life. Picturing your ideal, succesful dreamlife and start making your way to get there! Step by step. I am sure you will succeed if you make this effort.
Wish you the best. Take Care. Namaste.