Do you believe that you are in the right place in life, with the right surroundings, the right friends, girlfriend, husband, wife for you, that you have already the best life and living, wherever that is? That you are in the exact right place for your personal development, that your job or your school, your situation in general, is like it is because IT IS THE RIGHT PLACE FOR YOU RIGHT NOW.
By embracing that it actually is, you can for instance start thinking about why you have a certain friend, what is the purpose, the gift, the learning that friend is supposed to give you? Why did he or she enter your life, why did the two of you meet? And if you are at a job and you struggle, what is the lesson you can learn from it? Could it be because you should realize something, maybe move on with your life? Or you are exactly where you should be, in your career for instance, and just need to keep improving what you do now? Keep growing, for instance by reading books in that area, learning new things on the job, building on the relations with your colleagues, maybe teaching others what you already know?
It is a really interesting thought – I am exactly where I am supposed to be. Embrace it. Try it and see if you end up looking at things, situations and people differently. I believe everyone and everything is the way is the way it is to be able to teach you something. So have an open mind and see if the world around you changes in any way, by you looking at it differently.
Wish you the best. Take Care. Namaste.