When having the mindset that life is not about what you have, but what you have to give, you will start to see things differently and act differently. I like this quote from Oprah Winfrey, it says it quite well. The most important is not about what you have for yourself, but what you can offer to others. Keeping this in mind when meeting and interacting with other people will help you keep focus on others, instead of yourself. In today’s society I see a lot of egoism and me me me mentality.
When you think about what you have to give to others you will also discover (or rediscover) your own strengths and your positive sides, maybe to find out that you have a lot more to give than you thought at first! Or you get reminded of what you have to give. Either way, this will help strengthen your self-awareness and keep developing as a person. What do you have to give?
Wish you the best. Take Care. Namaste.